东海岸野餐之旅～美食篇





六十多个cup cakes，每个英文字母代表着不一样的口味，A - Apple; B - Blue berry; K - kiwi;
当然我还是最喜欢C - Chocolate！





文良说热狗是下油锅煎的　～　骗人！哈哈哈，感觉就是用热水烫过而已lei



九层糕！哈哈，不过我好像没有吃到呢

靖超妈妈卤的小鸡腿，超棒！每人只有一只的分量，不过，我。。。给他不小心吃了两只！还好俊勇吃素　＝ｐ

食物们！来张团体大合照！Say CHEERS!

oh!漏掉了馨薇的炒米粉，因为，吃完了！！！

THE PROCESS OF LOVE

最近好像常常弄人家生气~

对不起啦!

我不是故意的 >.<

愛情慢性致死之一的大兇手，就是潑冷水。(友情也是)

越熟的人越容易彼此潑冷水。人們自然而然用來對付潑冷水的方式有兩種，

一是反潑冷水回去， 二是保持沈默，警惕自己，不再將自己快樂或得意的事告知這個人。

兩種都使雙方疏離。

有一位建築公司的高級主管對我說，他最不能忍耐的，就是他的太太有意無意的潑他冷水。

當他打電話給太太說，今晚不能回家吃飯，因為公司同仁決定一起為他慶祝四十歲生日時，

他這位曾是他大學同班同學的妻子馬上嗤之以鼻的說：「喔，你何德何能，為什麼人家要幫你慶

生？」一句話使他滿腔熱情結成冰，心想：「早知妳這麼刻薄，下次不回家吃飯，我就不告訴

妳。」

其實，他的太太說的話並不表示瞧不起他，只是單純的不太會說話。被人指責「不會說話」的

人，通常很少認為那是自己的短處， 反而會沾沾自喜的認為自己很「直」，

暗暗以為是優點，如此一來，改進的可能性就很低。我曾在百貨公司逛街時看到一對中年夫妻，

太太剛從特價櫃上挑起一件衣服，先生馬上火眼金睛的大聲斥責：「醜死了，放回去！」太太一

驚，馬上縮手，尷尬的眼神看著和她拿起同樣衣服的人，然後低頭遁去。我們一邊以同情的眼光

看著這位太太，一邊為自己的審美品味被殃及而心有不甘。

肆無忌憚公開批評一個人穿著用品，構成的傷害和當面斥責他是白癡並沒有兩樣。親子關係亦

然。一位朋友說起她和母親的關係自小就疏遠，與小孩長大之後頂多能相敬如「冰」的原因，

就是她母親潑冷水的專長。她自小成績優秀，考第二名時，母親先問的第一句話竟是：「第一名

多妳幾分？」 得到第一名時後，她原以為會得到讚賞，母親卻說： 「成績好沒什麼了不起，女

孩子品德最重要。」 母親生日時她將零用錢買了她覺得很漂亮的生日禮物，母親卻覺得浪費錢

要她拿回去換，他嘟著嘴抗議「好心給雷擊」，母親卻說：「沒揍妳已經很好。」甚至當她長大

成人後和母親一起買衣服，站在試穿鏡前，母親也在她背後「讚賞」她「沒想到妳全身上下，就

這雙小腿長得還可以。」挑剔鬼、潑冷水、沒建設性的話可不能辯稱是「忠言逆耳」，說者不見

得開心，聽者更是大大的傷心。人非鋼鐵，愛一個人能承受幾次傷心？張愛玲曾說：愛的相反不

是恨，而是冷漠...是啊~說得好，不是愛，不是恨，而是冷漠以對！

礼物

今天补习学生的妈妈送了一件POLO衫给我，我没有想太多，说了声谢谢就收了下来。

回家一看，吓了一跳！

Suggested Retail Price:

$380.00

太贵了吧。汗颜 -_-"

或许这就是教育的甜蜜压力吧。

HT401

Received this sms after the HT401 project presentation:

Eh sorry ppl today my attitude very bad, esp to MJ Change thing also never tell u n very impatient. Sorry. tend to vent anger on u 2, esp JX. partly cos i never fin stuff, stress through hol, then affect this project, like drag meeting time, if not can confirm topic sooner. sorry ok.

This sms was sent to me by one of the group mates, XH. (3 ppl in a group)

Usually, i will be nice, and reply something like: "orh its ok, dun worry, its not your fault... etc."

OR maybe i will be nicer and say something like: "Don't worry, you did a great job after all."

This time, i just decided to ignore the sms, I didn't know what to reply after all.

I am not trying to be an "iron hearted" person, but seriously, i cannot tahan this girl in my group.

Yes, its true that, she put in the most effort in this project. I recognized that.

But is not that we are not doing our parts for the project, its just because she can't take in ppl advice and suggestions.

She thinks she is right.

She asks you for ur suggestions just to prove that she is right.

She did most of the work, because she thinks that we cannnot do anything right.

Yes, it may be too personal here, but that 's how i felt.

She asks for your opinions, you told her your opinions.

She just said NO NO NO, REJECT REJECT REJECT...etc.

So i learnt, i just kept my mouth shut during the project meetings.

I learnt, i learnt how NOT to be punctual for the project meetings.

If we are going to meet at 1pm, the earliest she will reach is 1.30pm?

She has made it clear that, she will not apologize for being late.
Can u believe got such ppl in the world ?

The most disgusting thing is that, she changes our ppt slides right before the presentation.

AND THS MAIN POINT IS THAT, SHE DIDN'T INFORM US AT ALL!

My part was alright, initially she wanted to take out one slide, but in the end she put it back, it didn't affect me anyway.

But for MJ's case, i think it was too much.

MJ didn't expect the change of slides at all, so when MJ was presenting half way, she suddenly realized the ppt slides shown on the screen, were different from what she has prepared.

So she got tongue-tied and she couldn't continue her presentation, and XH went over and continue the presentation.

MAYBE, XH really didn't do it on purpose. I gave her the benefit of doubts.

But still…. from my point of views, its still unacceptable.

XH was not my friend. She is not my friend. And she will not be my friend.

I feel sorry for MJ for not doing well in the presentation,

and I feel sorrier for MJ for having such friend.

Period.

如果在二十一年前，我們就有保護環境和保護動物的概念，

那麽請問在這段時間，我們到底做了多少？