SomE ThOughts

Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Love starts with a smile,
grows with a kiss,
and ends with a tear.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
What do you do when the only person
who can make you stop crying
is the person who made you cry?

If love isn't a game,
why are there so many players?
And guess i am lousy in game,
because i am the one who always lose.

STUDY + STUDY + STUDY ! ! !

The One That Got Away

In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with... and the one that got away.

Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was flaw in the chemistry, but the timing just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.

I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.

How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big; inconsequentials become dealbreakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.

Then one day you're ready. You really are. And when this happens you'll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready.It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll make sense, it really will.So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person.

Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you've become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.

You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?" You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?"! That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "WHAT IF?" you'll have in your life. If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Believe me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you're mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it.

Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often, but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens. Maybe the one that got away is the one who's already married. In which case it's the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice little smile to your lips in the future when you're old and gray and reminiscing. But if neither of that is the case, then it's different.

What do you do if it's not yet too late? Simple...find him, find her. Because the very existence of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one? Ask him out to coffee, ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. U just might be his/her "one that got away"

Hi everyone....

wah.. it has been a long long time since i bloged last time... luckily i still manage to figure out my username and password for blogspot =)
life kinda terribly sucky these days... or ya... hahhahha... my life is really a MESS.... messy plus unorganised.... i din't blog for a long time, not bcos i have nothing to blog abt, is bcos i have TOO MUCH tt i wanted to say.. but i scare to offend anyone in my post... =X

hahha... being a lame and crappy man whenever i can in the sch, cos i jsut wanna bring laughers and cheers to the class... i have suffocated enough from the emptiness and unhappiness that my life brings to me... but i must go on... there is still a goal for me to achieve... PROMOTE exam...
I MUST PASS IT NO MATTER WHAT...

Class is being unorganised... haiz... i feel so sad and lousy as i am the CG rep... sigh =(
Currently i am utterly disgusted and irritated by someones' attitues and behaviour ... hahhha.... but ya... tt person is getting her own retribution now lah... woo hoo~~~ just hope tt u can read this post...ya... hahhha.... if unluckily, one day the whole singapore only left with one girl and that is you... (wah... super terribly sad case)... i will have two options : 1. be a monk or 2. be a gay (no offence to the monks and gays out there... sorry=X )

* i didn't say who is tt girl hor... hahhha... dun anyhow put anyone in this content =P

Kinda miss lots of ppl there.... GESS basketall teams, GESS class 4J, benjamine, nicholas, dennis, watson and blah blah blah..... haiz.... take care all... got to go back study le....

oh ya... i am single..... and did u call me "lao3 gong1" tt time ? or did i hear wrongly ? hahhha...